{"id":2123,"date":"2022-02-27T10:09:55","date_gmt":"2022-02-27T18:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/?p=2123"},"modified":"2025-02-10T11:22:46","modified_gmt":"2025-02-10T19:22:46","slug":"the-names-the-same-if-you-play-my-game","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/?p=2123","title":{"rendered":"The Name&#8217;s the Same if You Play My Game"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>All my life, there is ongoing confusion with everyone I meet on how to pronounce my last name: &#8216;Lewczyk&#8217;. The name is Polish, and different languages have different ways to pronounce letters \u2013 plus some languages even have different letters that other languages don&#8217;t have. Also, when your name is from another country, you need to find a sensible balance in the local language between: having your name be pronounced <em>correctly<\/em> vs having it be <em>pronounceable<\/em> (consistently).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was born in the Buffalo NY area, where there is a sizable percentage of people of Polish descent \u2013 so the likelihood of someone pronouncing my last name correctly around Buffalo is higher than where I live now (California). In Buffalo (and other east US cities) there are even streets with Polish names.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember only one time in my life that someone new pronounced my last name correctly. It was a teacher in school who was (I believe) married to someone with a Polish last name similar to mine \u2013 so the teacher knew how to pronounce my name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because of Polish pronunciation, my last name is tricky for two reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul style=\"margin-left:40px;\">\n<li>the &#8216;cz&#8217; is said like a hard &#8216;ch&#8217; \u2013 essentially like a &#8216;tch&#8217;<\/li>\n<li>the &#8216;w&#8217; is said like a soft &#8216;v&#8217; \u2013 essentially like an &#8216;f&#8217; when next to a consonant<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So the correct name pronunciation is &#8216;Lef-chick&#8217;. I sometimes write it phonetically as &#8216;Left-chick&#8217; since this combines two common English words, and gets the &#8216;cz&#8217; said more correctly as &#8216;tch&#8217;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people can understand that the &#8216;cz&#8217; is said like a &#8216;ch&#8217;. This is true in many surnames, and even the country Czechoslovakia (or the Czech Republic) have this &#8216;ch&#8217; pronunciation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The bigger challenge comes with the &#8216;w&#8217;. In English, &#8216;ew&#8217; has a definite pronunciation \u2013 like &#8216;oo&#8217;. So many people look at my name and want to say &#8216;Loo-chick&#8217; (or &#8216;Loo-check&#8217;). Beyond that, what&#8217;s even more interesting is \u2013 even within my family, there is disagreement on how to pronounce the&#8217;w&#8217;\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The disagreement within my family stems from my Dad saying that the &#8216;w&#8217; is pronounced like a &#8216;v&#8217;. This is true when the &#8216;w&#8217; is surrounded by vowels, but when it is next to a consonant, the letter softens to (almost) and &#8216;f&#8217;. How do I know this? Three reasons, which I&#8217;ll provide below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul style=\"margin-left:40px;\">\n<li><strong>Polish Professor<\/strong> &#8211; The first reason I know the &#8216;w&#8217; is said like an &#8216;f&#8217; is because I took a Polish class in college. (I&#8217;m the only one of my siblings that took a Polish class.) The professor teaching Polish said that the &#8216;w&#8217; softens to (almost) an &#8216;f&#8217; when next to a consonant. (Further, with the &#8216;cz&#8217; being said like a &#8216;hard ch&#8217; \u2013 it is awkward to say &#8216;v&#8217; then &#8216;tch&#8217; one after another.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>My Dad<\/strong> &#8211; The second reason I know the &#8216;w&#8217; is said like an &#8216;f&#8217; is because&#8230; I asked my dad! This was a funny exchange between him and me, because I found myself years ago telling my dad how I had learned in school that the &#8216;v&#8217; is said very soft \u2013 like an &#8216;f&#8217; when next to a consonant. He disagreed, and said <em>&#8220;No, it is said like a &#8216;v&#8217; \u2013 as in &#8216;Lefchick'&#8221;<\/em> When he heard the pronunciation that came out of his mouth, he had a very surprised look on his face \u2013 because it absolutely came out as an &#8216;f&#8217;. \ud83d\ude42<\/li>\n<li><strong>Multiple 3rd Parties<\/strong> &#8211; Here&#8217;s an example of a Polish person who agrees:<em> <a href=\"https:\/\/polishforums.com\/language\/pronounce-word-sentences-51675\/#msg1199196\">l<\/a><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/polishforums.com\/language\/pronounce-word-sentences-51675\/#msg1199196\" target=\"_blank\">ink<\/a><\/em>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So for these reasons \u2013 my Polish professor, my dad&#8217;s pronunciation, and random googled 3rd parties \u2013 I&#8217;m certain that the w in my last name (the &#8216;v&#8217;) is said essentially like an &#8216;f&#8217;. What&#8217;s interesting is that my siblings all say our name with a hard &#8216;v&#8217; sound (&#8216;Levv-chick&#8217;) which doesn&#8217;t roll off the tongue that well. (And can also lead to some odd pronunciations \u2013 like my wife&#8217;s sister&#8217;s family who call us the &#8216;Love-chucks&#8217;.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever. It is too late to change my siblings&#8217; minds on pronunciation \u2013 even if I point them to this post. \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><font color=\"#00006d\"><i>It was <\/i><span style=\"caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 109);\"><i>interesting<\/i><\/span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><i> walking into my Polish class in college for the first time. I entered the room, and looked around \u2013 and the students were all in a similar situation as me: non-Polish-speakers of Polish descent. Everyone looked Polish (pale, tall face, big forehea<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><i>d, wide-set eyes<\/i><span><i>), and it was like walking into a family reunion. Shocking, but I guess not surprising. <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/font><\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><span style=\"color:#00006d\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Other note: the title of this post is a line from a play that my siblings and I wrote and (audio) recorded when young.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All my life, there is ongoing confusion with everyone I meet on how to pronounce my last name: &#8216;Lewczyk&#8217;. The name is Polish, and different languages have different ways to pronounce letters \u2013 plus some languages even have different letters that other languages don&#8217;t have. Also, when your name is from another country, you need &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/?p=2123\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Name&#8217;s the Same if You Play My Game&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2123"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2123"}],"version-history":[{"count":48,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2123\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2447,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2123\/revisions\/2447"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2123"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2123"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lewczyk.net\/tomswritings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2123"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}